Why do relationships have to be so hard sometimes?

Ask Ahleseah of the Shining Ones; Channeled by Janette

I am thrilled to announce that I will once again be publishing and broadcasting channeled messages, starting now.  It's exciting news for me because, well, channeling threatened my life and well-being to a serious degree at one time, along with religious dogma which has been an ongoing lesson for me, I feel I have finally broken through enough that I am able to start again.  I choose to channel only one guide for these translations, and that is my Spirit Guide; Ahleseah of the Shining Ones, as she has never failed me, and remains by my side diligently, with a playfulness, sense of humour, and loving support and inquisition that I relate to and admire.  Last night I moved many pictures to my desktop, categorized according to how I will use them to complete my Master's culminating project.  While I was doing the channeling, the pictures on my desktop, only those for this specific project, completely re-arranged themselves to form perfect rows and columns spread evenly to fill all of the available space on my desktop, but completely out of order.  Ahleseah has always gotten a kick out of computer games, oh how I have missed, and love how she plays.  Oh, I just realized they're not just in the available space, they're also over top of my row of most important pictures.  Nice.  ;) 

WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS HAVE TO BE SO HARD SOMETIMES?

"Inside the spirit of the Source, there is a seed planted which activates the existence of each of us.  Within this seed there is an infinitum of information which defines the Soul Map of the individual.  Upon this map is a key, wherein lies the most valuable lesson of that individual's physical existence.  Everything that the individual experiences from that moment on, points to the key, the lesson which contains the potential of bring the individual to full enlightenment; Oneness with God.  
As human beings in physical form, you have accepted the responsibility, on a soul level, of a life with the potential of decoding this map in order to physically experience your Oneness with God.
For most of You, the lesson of greatest value is through the experience of intimate relationship.  Intimate relationship holds a mirror up for us to view in the Other the aspects of ourSelves that We need to come to terms with, accept and Love unconditionally, in order to experience the God Spark within us, which is the ultimate truth of Who and What We Are.
Upon accepting this responsibility, when you were still only a Soul, formless and infinite, You understood the challenges as purely illusory and veils of which could be seen through of moved aside in order to find that key to the God Spark, and through the lessons that take you there, you will know with absolute certainty Who and What You Are.  
Each of you possesses n internal compass that points you to the perfect person, to the perfect situation, in order for your soul to have these experiences.  Learn to follow this compass, to trust where it takes you, to know that no other person knows better than You where it is guiding you, for it is through your own emotions and intuition that the compass can be navigated.
Trust in yourself and learn from eachother.  Know that it is all for your own pure enjoyment and see the pleasure of the game in all experiences.  Perceive your interactions with others with Lightness, and find the joy in experiencing these connections.
I do believe that if you were to look deep into your experience, those relationships that you perceive as challenges, that you will find pleasure in the experience, that you will feel excited with the anticipation of The Game, exuberant even, in the challenge that is suited so specifically, and so phenomenally precise to only your individual experience and learning and capabilities.
Everywhere you look, your own Soul is sending You signs to assist you and take you to your own expansion of Being in this experience, for that is all that it's here for; The Experience.  And The Experience never ends, so you can't get it wrong, you have an infinitum of chances, as many as you need.  We are infinite energy in motion, a spirally compass of emotion, united by our own unique authenticity... There is no other like you, and in that we are all the same.  
Love Each Other.  Support Each Other.  Trust your intuition, who to talk to, when to walk towards, when to walk away, it is all within You.  Be in the moment.  That is the Way.  Detach from your thoughts and move into your instinct, and I promise you, Lovelies, that the joy in the Game of Life will be found, and your relationship to All will be Great and Profound.
In Light, 
Ahleseah of the Shining Ones"